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i could be your favourite spectacle
14 . bi . trans dude . māori (white passing)
he/him/his . xe/xim/xis . wyr/worm/worms
(jaime is my preferred name!)
don't dm me unless it's commissions or something serious
FUN FAX BELOW!
since ive gotten questions abt this apparently? im whitepassing poc! i am māori underneath all of this ...... White People Energy
i probably have depression and paranoia (self dx) as well as adhd (prof dx) and im just out here trying to live my best life!!!!
if my age makes you uncomfortable its fine to ask me to unfollow you or to not follow me!!!
i would rather not have anyone try to dm me or talk to me privately. it triggers my paranoia and i'll probably end up accusing you of things, giving short responses or just straight up blocking you. it's nothing personal!!
the only exceptions to this is if youre going to commission me!! im fine with dms if they're commissions, or if they're about something like really serious (e.g, you think ive done something racist/homophobic/otherwise wrong) but otherwise i don't want to talk in private!!
before you follow!!
don't follow if:
you're homophobic, transphobic, racist, etc. the general shit
you're uncomfortable w me being 14
if you're a terf or trumed, or you think bi people are transphobic, say that pan means "hearts not parts", or are a pan or bi exclus
if you're an ace/aro/aspec/arospec exclus
support or like 'yaoi' (that's fetishising gay people! and thats homophobic!)
if you're a pedophile/(no)map or an apologist (i'm 14, grossass!!!)
if you're a nazi/nazi apologist
if you're pro-ana or otherwise post about eating disorders
you disapprove of she/her gays or he/him lesbians
anti-anti/pro-shipper, or think shipping people irl is okay
pro cringe culture
you hate cats or think violence against them is justified
if youre pro-life aka anti-abortion
if your url, icon or title have any of my triggers in them (i manually check everyone who follows me, so it would be APPRECIATED if i didnt have to feel sick looking at who follows me)
if i know you irl or you go to my school and are not my friend
they're not all triggers necesarially. some of them are just viscerally upsetting
saying people online /my friends are faking their identity (friends-exclusive)
discussion of ages/age gaps between me and my peers (friends-exclusive)
the progression of time/how close we are to a specific date/the end of the decade stuff/jokes abt "oh haha the year has gone so fast" etc
the names amy, june and theo
pet death, including snails, and especially if deliberate
climate change, world ending scenarios, etc
the minecraft end poem / scene
venting to exclusively me, privately, without consent
descriptions of self harm, specifically cutting
suicide, especially jokes
eye trauma, or anything going near eyes
self deprecation (it's okay in fiction as long as its not too heavy)
things i'd rather you avoid:
the t slur (trap) and r slur (retard)
the phrase 'dumb blonde'
calling me a furry
pictures of irl bugs (apart from butterflies and bees), especially moths or spiders
if you're going to post about these things or reblog a post mentioning them, i block the tags "jaime don't look" and "jaime dont look". direct tags that tell me what the post is abt dont stop emotions tm from being triggered, especially if it's a paranoia trigger